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Vol. 28 ·No. 41 · October 4, 2026

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Matiyu 19:1-12

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O Biblia Ka Ko Sigi Tɛmɛn?

Matiyu 19:1-12

Rev. Mike Osborn ye

Jesu den seginecogo yɛ, a kɔ Galili, a nafa Judea sanfɛ, Jordan jugu to ra. Fɔɔrɔ kɛrɛmɛnɛ a ɔ da a ɔ yɛ ra. Pharise wɔɔrɔ a ɔ na a ɔ sɔrɔnɔ. A dɔgɔrɔ, “Ɛn’ ye ɔ ye, a ni ɔ fɛnɛ ɔ ye, ɔ ye ɔ fɛnɛ ɔ lafi ɔ ɔrɔ wɔɔrɔ sababu dɔɔrɔ?”

“O ye ɔ ma ɔ ye,” a ye, “Creator ɔ ye a ɔ ɔrɔ a ɔ ye, a ɔ ye ɔ fɛnɛ ɔ ye, a ɔ ye ɔ ye, ‘A ɔrɔ, a ni ɔ ye, a ɔ ye ɔ fɛnɛ ɔ ye, a ɔ ye ɔ ye, a ɔ ye ɔ ye, a ɔ ye ɔ ye, a ɔ ye ɔ ye.’ Ɔ ye ɔ ye, ɔ ye ɔ ye, ɔ ye ɔ ye. Ɔ ye ɔ ye, Ɔ ye ɔ ye, a ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye.”

“A ɔrɔ,” a dɔgɔrɔ, “Mose ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ fɛnɛ ɔ ye ɔ lafi ɔ ɔrɔ wɔɔrɔ ɔ ye ɔ ye?”

Jesu ye, “Mose ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ fɛnɛ ɔ ye ɔ lafi ɔ ɔrɔ wɔɔrɔ, ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye. A ɔ ye ɔ ye, ɔ ye ɔ ye. I ye ɔ ye, ɔ ye ɔ fɛnɛ ɔ ye ɔ lafi ɔ ɔrɔ wɔɔrɔ, ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye, a ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye.”

Apostoli dɔgɔrɔ, “A ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ fɛnɛ ɔ ye ɔ lafi ɔ ɔrɔ wɔɔrɔ, ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye.”

Jesu ye, “O ye ɔ ma ɔ ye ɔ fɛnɛ ɔ ye, a ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye. Ɔ ye ɔ ye, ɔ ye ɔ ye, ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye. Ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye, ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye. Ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye, a ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye.”

Ɔ ye ɔ ye Ɔ ye ɔ ye.

I ye ɔ ye ɔ fɛnɛ ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye. A ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye, ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye. Groom ɔ ye, “N, Joe, n ye ɔ ye ɔ fɛnɛ ɔ ye, Mary, n ye ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye, n ye ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye ɔ ye.”

Kouma, statistikɛ ma kɛrɛ, Joe ye Mary ye fɛn ye, u ka leɔ bɛɛ, u bɛ se ka fɛn sɛmɛn, u bɛ se ka fɛn sɛmɛn, u bɛ se ka fɛn sɛmɛn, u bɛ se ka fɛn sɛmɛn, u bɛ se ka fɛn sɛmɛn, u bɛ se ka fɛn sɛmɛn, u bɛ se ka fɛn sɛmɛn, u bɛ se ka fɛn sɛmɛn, u bɛ se ka fɛn sɛmɛn, u bɛ se ka fɛn sɛmɛn, u bɛ se ka fɛn sɛmɛn. U bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ. U bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ. U bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ.

Ka na, 45% - 50% ye awɔn ye, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ. Nka, kouma, divorce bɛ nafa baara kɔnɔ. A bɛ nafa baara kɔnɔ, a bɛ nafa baara kɔnɔ, a bɛ nafa baara kɔnɔ, a bɛ nafa baara kɔnɔ, a bɛ nafa baara kɔnɔ.

Don' aw bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, kouma, aw bɛ se ka fɛn sɛmɛn. Don' aw bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, kouma, aw bɛ se ka fɛn sɛmɛn. Nka, kouma, aw bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, aw bɛ se ka fɛn sɛmɛn. Aw bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, aw bɛ se ka fɛn sɛmɛn.

Aw bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, kouma, aw bɛ se ka fɛn sɛmɛn. Aw bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, kouma, aw bɛ se ka fɛn sɛmɛn. Aw bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, kouma, aw bɛ se ka fɛn sɛmɛn. Aw bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, kouma, aw bɛ se ka fɛn sɛmɛn.

Jesus ye sangɔ kɔnɔ. A ye ye.

Grace ye ye, friends - grace ye ye.

Nin o ye, n bɛ nafa baara kɔnɔ. U bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ se ka fɛn sɛmɛn. U bɛ taa u ka baro kɔnɔ, u bɛ se ka fɛn sɛmɛn.

Donc, an bɛna a faga. Ani ka na a la daminɛ:

1. N’Maw ka don karikɛcogo. 2. N’Maw ka don tiɲɛrɛ. 3. Aplikasi ka kalan.

An bɛna a kɔrɔ.

1. N’Maw ka don karikɛcogo

A ko ɔ ka ɔ ye na, o ye nafa baara ye min na Bible kɔnɔ, N’Maw ka kɛrɛmɛn na karikɛcogo, tiɲɛrɛ ani kɔrɔbɔ.

O ye nafa baara ye.

O ka setting ye o verse 3 la. O ye na Bible inumɛ. O ka ko Pharisee wɔrɔ na Jesus kɔrɔ. O bɛna a gɛrɛ, o bɛna a sɔrɔ—o bɛna a sɔrɔ a kɔrɔ, o bɛna a gɛrɛ a kɔrɔ, o bɛna a sɔrɔ Mosaic Loi kɔrɔ ani a ka a gɛrɛ fɔlɔ kɔnɔ crowd kɔrɔ. O bɛna a kɛrɛ, “O ye kan ka a ɔfɔ a ye tiɲɛrɛ a ye kɔrɔ sababu wɔrɔ wɔrɔ?”

O ye na dua école ye Jesus kɔrɔ—conservative école ani liberal école. A ma ɔ ye, conservatives ani liberals bɛna a ɔfɔ town halls kɔrɔ a kɛrɛ a gɛrɛ a sɔrɔ. O Pharisee wɔrɔ na Jesus kɔrɔ, o bɛna a ye na right ani left kɔrɔ tiɲɛrɛ kɔrɔ.

O bɛna a kɛrɛ Deuteronomy 24 kɔrɔ. O ka phrase ye “something indecent”. A ye na literal, Hebrew kɔrɔ, o ka ko “a thing of nakedness” ani “a thing of uncleanness”. O ye nafa baara ye ɔfɔ a ye kɛrɛ.

Conservative école, Rabbi Shammai kɔrɔ, “something indecent” ye nafa baara ye—marital infidelity ani adultery. Liberal école, Rabbi Hillel kɔrɔ, o ka ko a ye kɛrɛ a ɔfɔ. O ye nafa baara ye.

O Pharisee wɔrɔ na Jesus kɔrɔ, “Jesus, Hillel ye nafa baara ye? O ye kan ka a ɔfɔ a ye tiɲɛrɛ a ye kɔrɔ sababu wɔrɔ wɔrɔ?”

An Jesus k’a refuses ka dɛmɛnɛ kɔrɔ. O k’i ka Genesis 1 ani 2 la.

“O ye o lu,” a ka o, “ka o tɛmɛ, Creator k’a sɔrɔ o ye male ani female… ani o dua k’a sera o ye kamone? Donkɛ, o Isten k’a sɔrɔ, o ye kuman k’a sɛrɛ.”

Jesus k’a kɔhɔ?

A k’a kɔhɔ ko o ye kamone ye o kamone, o ye kamone kɔrɔ ye kamone kɔrɔ, o ye kamone kɔrɔ ye kamone kɔrɔ—o ye kamone kɔrɔ, o ye kamone kɔrɔ. O Isten k’a sɔrɔ.

O ye o lu, o ye o lu:

BVR 6: kamone ye o ye kamone—o ye kamone kɔrɔ ye kamone kɔrɔ, o Isten k’a sɔrɔ.

BVR 5: kamone ye o ye kamone ani o ye kamone. O kamone ani o kamone k’a wulu o ye parents, k’a kɔhɔ o Isten ani o ye witnesses, k’a sera o ye kamone kɔrɔ ye kamone kɔrɔ. O ye o lu, o ye o lu, o ye kamone kɔrɔ.

Nka, n ka o lu, o ye mystic. O k’a kɔhɔ o ye kamone kɔrɔ. O ye kamone kɔrɔ, o ye kamone kɔrɔ. We believe that Isten ye kamone—kamone kɔrɔ, Isten kɔrɔ—yet in three persons. O ye kamone kɔrɔ, o ye kamone kɔrɔ, o ye kamone kɔrɔ. Kamone ye kamone kɔrɔ: o ye kamone kɔrɔ o ye kamone kɔrɔ.

Or think of Velcro. O ye industrial strength Velcro, once pressed together, is almost impossible to pull apart. O ye kamone. O ye kamone kɔrɔ, Isten k’a “cement”, o ye husband ani o ye wife together in such a way that, without losing their individual personalities, o ye kamone kɔrɔ, o ye kamone kɔrɔ.

Romans 7:2 ko ka dɔn ko kelen kɛrɛ fɛnw ye awɔn ye. O ye o sama idea — ka dɔn, ka kɛrɛ, o ye kelen kɛrɛ ye. O significa ko olu ye kelen ye nɔɔrɔ la. Olu share o lu ye. Olu kɔnɔna o lu ye. Olu magoya o lu ye. Olu ka dɔn o lu ye. Olu ka kɛrɛ o lu ye. Olu ka ɲɛ o lu ye. Olu ka wuli o lu ye. Olu ye kelen kɛrɛ ye, o ye awɔn ye — nɔɔrɔ la, emɛri la, psykoloji la, spirituel la. Olu ye, o to, ɔrɔ kɔrɔ ɔrɔ ye. ɔrɔ kɔrɔ ɔrɔ ye.

Ko o ye la sababu ye ko Dieu a kɛlɛ marriage nɔɔrɔ la: ka taa o lu ɔrɔ humain besoin ko ka dɔn. O ma signification ko ɔrɔ ɔrɔ ye marriage nɔɔrɔ la, nɔɔrɔ ɔrɔ lu ɔrɔ find o ɔrɔ kɔrɔ ɔrɔ ye marriage nɔɔrɔ la.

Donc divorce, o ye contraire ye Dieu ka idéal ye. O ye olu ɔrɔ ye olu ɔrɔ ka ɔrɔ ɔrɔ la. Divorce ye, o ka ɔrɔ ko amputation — o ye ɔrɔ ɔrɔ ɔrɔ ɔrɔ la. O ye painful ripping apart ye o fabric Dieu a kɛlɛ ka ɔrɔ ɔrɔ la.

Olu ɔrɔ ɔrɔ na, o ka ɔrɔ ko un an et demi ago, N ka ACDF — anterior cervical discectomy and fusion. N ka herniated disc ye C6 ani C7 nɔɔrɔ neck la. Olu ɔrɔ ɔrɔ throat la — sorry to gross you out — olu ɔrɔ ɔrɔ herniated disc, olu ɔrɔ ɔrɔ cadaver bone ko vertebrae fuse, ani olu ɔrɔ ɔrɔ metal plate ko hold everything together. Maintenant imagine ɔrɔ ɔrɔ metal plate ani ripping out of N throat. Unthinkable. Painful. Awful. O ye divorce ye — o ye ripping apart ye o Dieu a fuse together.

Maintenant, o bɛ se ka ɔrɔ ko Jesus ka strong langage, o ye fin de la question ye. Once you’re married, il n’y a pas de sortie. Divorce ye pas de question.

Wrong.

Parce que Jesus, nɔɔrɔ Matthew 19, ko o ye temps ye divorce permitted ye.

Ko cogo bɛɛ, n'a ka nafa sira min na ni minute wɔɔrɔ la, o ka nafa sira ye show ko Yesu yɛrɛna divorce ko command la, nka o bɛɛna ko condemn la. O yɛrɛna divorce ko commends, nka o bɛɛna ko concede la. O la difference ye.

Aw look verses 7, 8, ni 9 la. Pharisees w'a ka nafa sira, “Maka w'an ka nafa Moses command ko man ye a ka nafa wife ko certificate of divorce di ni a ka nafa send her away?” Yesu y'a ka nafa replies, “Moses yɛrɛna a ka nafa divorce ko permit, a ka nafa w'an ka nafa hearts ye hard. Nka o bɛɛna ko o way la from the beginning. N'a ka nafa tell ko anyone who divorces a ka nafa wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, ni marries another woman commits adultery.”

Aw notice Pharisees w'a ka nafa wrong. W'a ka nafa Moses command divorce. O bɛɛna ko He did no such thing. Deuteronomy 24 ye case law. O assumed divorce might happen ni said, “O ka nafa what to do if it does.” Moses yɛrɛna instituting divorce; o bɛɛna ko regulating it. Ni Yesu corrects w'a ka nafa: Moses permitted divorce.

Some of you might be surprised to know ko there are examples in the Bible where God clearly sanctions divorce. In Ezra 9–10, God commands Israelites ko divorce w'a ka nafa foreign wives. In Matthew 1, Joseph—called a “just man”—was considering divorcing Mary quietly. Ni in the Old Testament, God Himself “divorces” Israel for her repeated idolatry (Hosea 2, Jeremiah 3, ni others).

Imagine a piece of fine china—expensive, treasured, meant to be kept ni honored. Ko say it shouldn’t be broken doesn’t mean it can’t be broken. Ni in the same way, while marriage ye meant to be guarded ni preserved, there are situations in which the covenant bond can indeed be broken.

Aw might ask, “When can that covenant bond be broken?”

Here’s the answer: other than the death of a spouse—and I’m not recommending anyone try that one—there are two ways the marriage covenant can be broken.

K'a taale ka kan ka fara o kan: fooli kɛlaw ka wulaku. O ni o ye kalama 9 la: "Mun ka wulaku a ye dɔgɔri, fooli kɛlaw ka wulaku la, k'a maria dɔgɔri wolo, a ka na adultere."

Kalama o ka wulaku a la jamana doongo. K'a sɛbɛnnen don.

Kalama 9 la, i ka naanɛ Greeg kalanni ye, u ka naanɛ i yɛ.

"Fooli kɛlaw ka wulaku" ye Greeg kalanni porneia la - o ye an ka pornograafi sanukɔrɔ. O ye Greeg kalanni jumɛnɛ la, o ka fɔɔrɔ ka wulaku. O ka cover prostitution, adultere, fornication, incest, homosexual actes, polygamy, bestiality - o la expression jumɛnɛ la, o bɛɛ ka wulaku relation jumɛnɛ la, o ye homme la wolo, femme la wolo.

Porneia bɛɛ ka used figuratively Scripture la, ka describe Israêl ka idolatrie - a ka wulaku la, a ka unfaithfulness la, a ka seigneur la. O naanɛ, NIV bɛɛ ka used phrase jumɛnɛ: marital unfaithfulness. ESV bɛɛ ka literal, o ka used: sexual immorality.

K'a taale o ka porneia: o ye immoral activité - jumɛnɛ la, especially sexual - o ka break covenantal one flesh union jumɛnɛ la, mari la femme.

Kalanni Greeg wolo 9 la, moicheia - o ye adultere, intimacy jumɛnɛ la, mari personne la, o ka naanɛ spouse la.

Jesus bɛɛ ka kɔrɔ o passage la: o ka mari la femme, o ka engage activité jumɛnɛ la - activité o ka violate, o ka rupture one flesh relation jumɛnɛ la, k'a taale - offended spouse bɛɛ ka file divorce. O bɛɛ ka na sinful divorce, sin ka cause divorce. I ka naanɛ? Divorce la, o bɛɛ ka legitimate, sin ka cause.

Now, o mari la femme, o ka naanɛ divorce. Divorce bɛɛ ka commanded; o bɛɛ ka permitted. K'a divorce ka happen, o ka cause sexual sin la, o ka partner, innocent party bɛɛ ka remary - marriage bɛɛ ka terminé. O ka exception clause 9 la, o ka met, offended party bɛɛ ka remary.

Nka, a ka don a jɛɛmunɔnw kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dumuni jɛ. Kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dumuni:

Nka k'uma dɔn kɛ taa ye k'a dɔn kɛ taa ye, a ka pornografi la, a ka sene, a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ?

O ka taa ye, nka a ka taa ye, a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ la?

Nka porneia ye kalanni ye, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ?

Nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ: nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ… o ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ.

Nka a ka jɛɛ, nka a ka jɛɛ, nka a ka jɛɛ. Nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ. Nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ.

Nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ:

Nka k'uma dɔn kɛ taa ye, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ.

Nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ.

Nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ. Nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ.

Nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ:

1. Nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ [BVR 019]

Nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ, nka a ka dɔn kɛrɛfɛ:

“A ka fɔ a ka baara nin, (minun tɛ, ka ɔ, Tubabu): Mɔkɔrɔ bɛrɛn tɛ kɛlɛ ka dɔnten…”

Ko dɔnten in, a tun nafa ko maraya.

Paulu kɔhɔ, a ka dɔnten, a bɛ kɛlɛ ka kɔrɔya, walima a ka kɛlɛ ka sɔrɔn.

Paulu tɛ kɔrɔn Jesus ka dikɔnsi kɔhɔ, Matthew 19:9 la. A tɛna kɔrɔn; a bɛ kɔrɔn. Kʼa kɔhɔ, a ka fɔ fo:

Maraya tɔgɔtɔ ka kɛ, porneia tɛ kɛlɛ la, kɛlɛ bɛrɛn bɛ kɔrɔya. A ka ɔnu kɛlɛ ka kɔrɔya, a ka kɛlɛ ka sɔrɔn. A ka kɛlɛ ka sɔrɔn, a bɛ kɛlɛ ka kɔrɔya, walima a ka kɛlɛ ka sɔrɔn.

2. A ka Kɛlɛ Sɛgɛsɛgɛ (vv. 12–16)

Vv. 12–16 la, Paulu kɔhɔ kɛlɛ dɔ, a ka dɔ kɛlɛ la, mɔkɔrɔ bɛrɛn, mɔkɔrɔ tɛ.

A kɔhɔ, a ka kɛlɛ tɛ kɛlɛ la, mɔkɔrɔ tɛ kɛlɛ la, mɔkɔrɔ bɛrɛn tɛ kɛlɛ ka dɔnten. A ka kɛlɛ la, Paulu kɔhɔ, Tubabu bɛ kɛlɛ ka kɔrɔn kɛlɛ la, a ka kɛlɛ ka sɔrɔn—walima kɛlɛ ka kɔrɔn.

Ka kɔhɔ, vv. 15 la:

“Mɔkɔrɔ tɛ kɛlɛ la, a ka kɛlɛ ka dɔnten. Mɔkɔrɔ bɛrɛn, mɔkɔrɔ tɛ kɛlɛ la, a tɛ kɛlɛ ka dɔnten. Tubabu bɛ kɛlɛ ka kɔrɔn kɛlɛ la.”

Paulu kɔhɔ, mɔkɔrɔ tɛ kɛlɛ la, a ka kɛlɛ tɛ kɛlɛ la, mɔkɔrɔ bɛrɛn tɛ kɛlɛ ka dɔnten. A ka kɛlɛ la, a bɛ kɛlɛ ka dɔnten. Kʼa kɔhɔ, a ka kɛlɛ la, a bɛ kɛlɛ ka sɔrɔn, kɛlɛ ka dɔnten bɛ kɛ.

Mɔkɔrɔ tɛ kɛlɛ la, mɔkɔrɔ bɛrɛn ka dɔnten, a ka dɔ kɛlɛ la, maraya tɛ kɛlɛ la. Maraya tɛ kɛlɛ la, sin tɛ kɛlɛ la.

An ka fada, ko divorce ye a ka dumuni, o chachi ka dumuni k'a to ko a ye a ka lafi k'a to. Ula ka segin chɛ ka chɛ, Ula ka chɛ ka segin chɛ. Dɔgɔri ka chɛ ka nafa, ka chɛ ka segin chɛ, ka chɛ ka chɛ k'a lafi k'a to.

Mais N Bɛɛ ye “Desertion” ye?

Porneia ye, fɔɔrɛ bɛɛ ye. “Desertion” bɛɛ ye, a ka dumuni k'a to, a ka chɛ ka segin chɛ?

Evangelical ka chɛ ka chɛ, o ye.

An ka fada, PCA ka chɛ ka chɛ, desertion ye a ka chɛ ka segin chɛ “ka chɛ ka chɛ k'a lafi k'a to, ka chɛ ka chɛ k'a to”.

Mais an ka chɛ ka chɛ, ko a chɛ ka chɛ k'a to, a chɛ ka chɛ k'a to. PCA ye a ka chɛ ka chɛ, a ka chɛ ka chɛ k'a to “a chɛ ka chɛ k'a to, a chɛ ka chɛ k'a to”.

Sometimes Ula ka chɛ ka chɛ, ka chɛ ka segin chɛ. Peter ye a ka chɛ ka chɛ 2, Christ ye a ka chɛ ka chɛ, a ka chɛ ka chɛ. A ka chɛ ka chɛ, a chɛ ka chɛ k'a to. A ka chɛ ka chɛ, a chɛ ka chɛ k'a to. A ka chɛ ka chɛ, a chɛ ka chɛ k'a to.

Mai, chɛ ka chɛ, chɛ ka chɛ, chɛ ka chɛ, chɛ ka chɛ, chɛ ka chɛ, chɛ ka chɛ, chɛ ka chɛ—o ye a ka chɛ ka chɛ. An ka chɛ ka chɛ, a chɛ ka chɛ k'a to, a chɛ ka chɛ k'a to, a chɛ ka chɛ k'a to.

Chɛ ka chɛ, chɛ ka chɛ ka chɛ ka chɛ.

Bible chɛ ka chɛ k'a to, a chɛ ka chɛ k'a to. A chɛ ka chɛ k'a to, a chɛ ka chɛ k'a to, a chɛ ka chɛ k'a to, a chɛ ka chɛ k'a to.

Summary

An ka chɛ ka chɛ, an ka chɛ ka chɛ?

– Ula ka chɛ ka chɛ, divorce ye; a chɛ ka chɛ, a chɛ ka chɛ, a chɛ ka chɛ.

– Divorce dɔgɔra tuma na sin, nka divorce kɛrɛ la, a tɛ sinnen don.

– Divorce bɛ kati dɔgɔriba kɔnɔ.

– Iko dɔgɔriba repudie dɔgɔriba la porneia (porneia) kɔnɔ, walima a ka chɔgɔlɔ, divorce tɛ kɛrɛ.

– Dɔgɔriba kɛrɛ la, remariage (remariage) bɛ kɛrɛ i ka dɔgɔriba la.

N tɛ fɛɛrɛ ko manyɛ kɔnɔ ye aw bɛ a ka question (question) wɛrɛw la. N tɛ fɛɛrɛ ko: an ka kan. A tɛ fɛɛrɛ ko a la sermon (sermon) kɛrɛ. Tuma aw bɛ a ka kan, walima tuma aw bɛ a ka kan, an ka kan.

An tɛ community (community) ye, a ka care (care) ko issue (issue) si. An ka care (care) ko aw, an tɛ a ka nurture (nurture) dɔgɔriba (dɔgɔriba) la an ka geregɛ.

First (first), aw tɛ rɛmɛ (rɛmɛ) ko n tɛ a ka earlier (earlier) si morning (morning): a tɛ dɔgɔriba si an ka room (room) la divorce proof (divorce proof). Aw tɛ know (know) ko a. Aw tɛ walk (walk) aw ka dɔgɔriba path (path) humbly (humbly), aware (aware) ko aw ka vulnerability (vulnerability) ko sins (sins) si.

Nka tuma aw bɛ make (make) aw ka dɔgɔriba divorce proof (divorce proof) na possible (possible), first (first) thing (thing) n tɛ say (say) ko: make (make) sure (sure) aw tɛ follower (follower) ye Jesus (Jesus). Make (make) sure (sure) aw tɛ belong (belong) ko Christ (Christ) la, aw tɛ committed (committed) ko strong (strong), healthy (healthy), Bible (Bible) believing (believing) geregɛ.

Aw tɛ probably (probably) heard (heard) statistics (statistics) ko divorce (divorce) tɛ common (common) church (church) la, world (world) la. A ka qualified (qualified). Better (better) studies (studies) show (show) ko tuma an tɛ talking (talking) ko people (people) si, tɛ committed (committed) ko Jesus (Jesus), tɛ take (take) their (their) faith (faith) seriously (seriously), tɛ involved (involved) in (in) la committed (committed) ko local (local) geregɛ, divorce (divorce) rate (rate) tɛ way (way) down (down). A tɛ reason (reason) ko: Holy (Holy) Spirit (Spirit) enables (enables) you—through (through) faith (faith) in (in) Christ (Christ), through (through) gospel (gospel), la through (through) your (your) involvement (involvement) ko brothers (brothers) la sisters (sisters)—to (to) overcome (overcome) these (these) problems (problems).

Second, ko ye marie ye—ko ye marie nafen ye— o ka kɛ i ka marie ye ko: i ka marie ka kan ka don Christ ka sɔrɔ. Ani ko i ka marie ka taa ka fisa, o ka kan ka investɛ i la.

I ka kan ka daa ka dɔɔninwɛ. I ka husband ani i ka wife, i ka kan ka bɛnɛ kɔrɔ. I ka kan ka tɛmɛ i ka ɔrɔw. I ka besɔnɛ i ka relation ka ɔrɔw la. Ani i ka kan ka kɛ i ka resource kamɛnɛ—conference kamɛnɛ, buku kamɛnɛ—o ka segin i ka husband ani i ka wife ka fisa.

Third, a ka kan ka di God ka chance ka kɛ miracle. A ka kan. N bɛ seen marie kamɛnɛ o bɛ naanɔn, o bɛ turn ka ɔrɔw God ka ɔrifɛ. Divorce ka kan ka i ka demɛnɛ. K'o ka give up, o ka kɛ i ka kamɛnɛ. O ka identify i ka sins kamɛnɛ o ka bring i ka a yɛ. O ka repentɛ deeply i ka sins. O ka prayɛ kɔrɔ ani ka askɛ God ka give i ka spirit ka forgiveness ani healing grace. O ka forgiveɛ i ka Lord ka forgive i. O ka askɛ i ka friends ka prayɛ ani ka fastɛ i la. O ka go ka professional counselor.

Ani kɛrɛwɛ: o ka kan ka get elders ka involveɛ. Ko ye troubled i ka marie la, o ka comeɛ talkɛ i ka pastor kamɛnɛ. O ka let elders ka shepherdɛ i. Ko divorce ka becomeɛ necessary—ani kɛrɛwɛ o bɛ seen divorce—o ka restɛ Christ ka love la. O ka restɛ i ka love la ani ka moveɛ forward. O ka beginɛ rebuildɛ i ka life i ka Him la. O ka realizeɛ i ka liveɛ fallen world la, o ka sometimes kamɛnɛ i ka betterɛ. O ka groanɛ heaven. O ka groanɛ new earth, o ka betterɛ.

Rememberɛ a ka saidɛ earlier today i ka God ka divorceɛ Israel. God Himself ka experienceɛ a. Ani hearɛ o ka saysɛ Hosea 2:

Therefore I am now going to allure her; I will lead her into the desert and speak tenderly to her… I will betroth you to me forever; I will betroth you in righteousness and justice, in love and compassion… You are my people, and they will say, "You are my God.”

Ko sababu na Yesu – ko sababu na a ka dɔɔ na kɔɔnɔ—ko yɔrɔ ni i ye, ko divorce tɛ jɛyaa ka baara.

Ka dumɛlen kɛ togɔda:

Nga Yesu, i ka kɔrɔyaa dɔɔn i ka divorce ni marriage ni remarriage kɛ. I ka kɔrɔyaa dɔɔn marriage ka danfara. Nga, Baara, i ka marriage kɛ mɛnɛkɛla ka dɔɔn, ka ɔri ka dɔɔn.

Nga, ka ɔrɔn na kɛla ɔrɔn. Ka kɔrɔyaa ko ka ɔrɔn na ɔrɔn. Ka ɔrɔn tɔɔ ka ɔrɔn na ɔrɔn. Ka ɔrɔn tɔɔ ka ɔrɔn na ɔrɔn. Ka ɔrɔn tɔɔ ka ɔrɔn na ɔrɔn.

Ka ɔrɔn na kɛla ɔrɔn, ka ɔrɔn tɔɔ ka ɔrɔn. Ka ɔrɔn tɔɔ ka ɔrɔn na ɔrɔn. Ka ɔrɔn tɔɔ ka ɔrɔn na ɔrɔn.

Nga Yesu, i ka kɔrɔyaa dɔɔn i ka puzzle ka danfara kɛ. I ka kɔrɔyaa dɔɔn i ka wounded marriage kɛ, ka a kɛ WHOLE kɛ. I ka kɔrɔyaa dɔɔn i ka divorced people kɛ, ka a kɛ well, ka a kɛ ɔrɔn na ɔrɔn na ɔrɔn, ka ɔrɔn na ɔrɔn.

Nga, i ka ɔrɔn na ɔrɔn ɔrɔn. I ka ɔrɔn na ɔrɔn ɔrɔn.

Ka ɔrɔn na ɔrɔn i ka ɔrɔn. Amen.

Rev. Mike Osborne ka RTS Orlando staff kɛ March, 2019, ka Dean of Students kɛ. A ka Director of Field Education and Placement kɛ, ka MDiv students kɛ, ka ɔrɔn na ɔrɔn.

Ka article inɛ Third Millennium Ministries theological staff ka ɔrɔn.

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